Money & Relationships. Whose wallet should we use?

I recently had a conversation with a friend. We recalled the good times and one of this happened to be how Quks are referred to as 'Waizi' somewhere in +256. This had me thinking, why do some people think that loving to look for money is a bad thing???

Away from that. We have all seen these posts on social media.
1. Would you fall in Love with a broke guy?
2. Is there Love without money?
3. Name it....(hehee, nimesahau but bet y'all know these posts).

First things first, Love and money are two different things. And because the 'evil' one is always the lady who wants to date a financially able man, I will speak for us, Ladies.

Love is a strong feeling of affection towards someone or something. Money on the other hand is an item of value used for exchange of commodity bla bla bla...

☝This definition is what we learnt in school. In my own definition, I'd call Love a strong irresistable attraction towards someone/thing. Money simply makes everything, ok lies, money makes most things beautiful.

Lets face it, how do you survive without buying stuff? Again how do you buy stuff bila cash?? Whatever level of a relationship you are in, you need have some money. Whether it's coffee, dinner, rave, buying condoms...hizi vitu zote ni dooh my fren 😄😄.

Okay, Before you start throwing tantrums, I did not say that girls should start siphoning money from men. No, my point is, money is important. In anycase, both parties can changia in one way or the other.

If you don't have it today, We are always willing to understand. With a condition though, behave like you are trying. This act gives hope for tomorrow.

Last time I checked, Eve was from Adam's rib. Need I say more?

What's your take?

Lets continue this conversation in the comments section below 👇👇

Thank you.
Frush©2017

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